Anastasia Higginbotham

Image description: Portrait of author and illustrator Anastasia Higginbotham, wearing an animal-print top and with a tatoo on her left upper arm (credit: Isabel del Rosal)Saturday, February 20, 4PM

Join Quatrefoil Library and Wild Rumpus for a virtual, interactive event with award-winning author and illustrator Anastasia Higginbotham! **Please REGISTER HERE for this free event to get the link to join, plus a coupon code for 15% off of your next order!**

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You may know Anastasia Higginbotham for her unique ability to frankly but sensitively confront difficult issues in her books for kids including Not My Idea: A Book about Whiteness and Death is Stupid.

What You Don't Know: A Story of Liberated Childhood by Anastasia HigginbothamAnastasia's newest book for young readers, What You Don't Know: A Story of Liberated Childhood, illustrates how families, teachers, counselors, and other “stars” are already beaming love at queer, gender nonconforming, and trans children, to protect and bless them as they are. At this special event, Anastasia will read from and talk about What You Don't Know, show the behind-the-scenes of how she works on the collages to make her books, and answer questions. Plus, she'll show us how to make our own Roller-skating Party Collages at home!

The Roller-skating Party Collage lets kids put their community in the rink with them—real life people they know and trust, as well as strangers or historical figures whose radiant and genuine presence (even in spirit) is liberation.

What will you need to make your own Roller-skating Party Collage?

  • Roller rink background: Purchase any of Anastasia's books (below) before the event to get a full color 11"x17" roller rink background printed on cardstock to use for your collage (while supplies last)! Or, print out your own roller rink background: find the PDFs HERE and HERE. You can also make your own background out of any kind of paper, including newspaper, paper bags, cardstock, or cardboard!
  • A little space to work (the size of a placemat is enough)
  • Pens and pencils
  • Scissors
  • Glue stick
  • Squares or rectangles of plain brown grocery bag (or flattened out packing paper or construction paper) for creating faces, bodies, and hands
  • Images from magazines and catalogs to make clothes, hair, jewelry, hats, shoes, skates, wheelchairs, and assistive devices. Nothing has to be like it is in real life. Your people can have wings and tails, dress in actual flowers, have hair made of fire! Animals can skate!
  • IMPORTANT—There are no rules about the materials! A pencil or pen and paper is enough! The back of an envelope or some newspaper is enough! Stick figures are enough! You can write “my rebel auntie” and “my gay uncle” on a couple of popsicle sticks and skate them all over the rink.

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This event is brought to you in collaboration with Quatrefoil Libary. Quatrefoil Library is a community center that cultivates the free exchange of ideas and makes accessible LGBTQ+ materials for education and inspiration.

This free event will take place on Zoom Webinar. **Register HERE to get the link to join, along with a coupon code for 15% off of your next order!**

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Saturday, 20 February 2021 - 4:00pm
What You Don't Know: A Story of Liberated Childhood Cover Image
ISBN: 9781948340298
Availability: On Our Shelves Now (Subject to Availability)
Published: Dottir Press - January 26th, 2021

I think the days of Heather Has Two Mommies are long past. We're ready for GLBTQIA+ stories for kids that are a little bit complicated and a little bit interesting and a whole lotta fantastic. For all this, the person you turn to is Anastasia Higginbotham. --BETSY BIRD, Collection Development Manager of the Evanston Public Library

Anastasia Higginbotham's What You Don't Know: A Story of Liberated Childhood delves into queerness, Blackness, and the love that dismantles whiteness.

It's a book about knowing deeply that you matter--always did, always will. It's a book about what schools get wrong and churches don't say; but institutions are made by people and the people are evolving. It's a book about being known and cherished by family, and living in communion with your own personal Jesus, Buddha, Spirit, Source, Father, Mother, God, breath, inner space, outer space, nothingness, and however else we name and relate to our divinity and humility in the presence of all we don't know.

Not My Idea: A Book about Whiteness (Ordinary Terrible Things) Cover Image
ISBN: 9781948340403
Availability: Usually Ships from Wholesaler in 1-5 Days
Published: Dottir Press - November 17th, 2020

Featuring brand-new activity pages and additional learning material, the paperback edition of Not My Idea: A Book About Whiteness is a picture book about racism and racial justice, inviting white children and parents to become curious about racism, accept that it's real, and cultivate justice.

An honest explanation about how power and privilege factor into the lives of white children, at the expense of other groups, and how they can help seek justice. --THE NEW YORK TIMES




This book does a phenomenal job of explaining how power and privilege affect us from birth, and how we can educate ourselves...Not My Idea is an incredibly important book, one that we should all be using as a catalyst for our anti-racist education. --THE TINY ACTIVIST

Quite frankly, the first book I've seen that provides an honest explanation for kids about the state of race in America today. --ELIZABETH BIRD, librarian


"It's that exact mix of true-to-life humor and unflinching honesty that makes Higginbotham's book work so well..."--PUBLISHERS WEEKLY (*Starred Review)

A much-needed title that provides a strong foundation for critical discussions of white people and racism, particularly for young audiences. Recommended for all collections. --SCHOOL LIBRARY JOURNAL (*Starred Review)

A necessary children's book about whiteness, white supremacy, and resistance... Important, accessible, needed. --KIRKUS REVIEWS

A timely story that addresses racism, civic responsibility, and the concept of whiteness. --FOREWORD REVIEWS

For white folks who aren't sure how to talk to their kids about race, this book is the perfect beginning. --O MAGAZINE

Death Is Stupid (Ordinary Terrible Things) Cover Image
ISBN: 9781948340397
Availability: On Our Shelves Now (Subject to Availability)
Published: Dottir Press - August 4th, 2020

Death Is Stupid is an invaluable tool for discussing death, but also the possibilities for celebrating life and love.

"She's in a better place now," adults say again and again. But mortality doesn't seem better, it seems stupid. This forthright exploration of grief and mourning recognizes the anger, confusion, and fear that we feel about death. Necessary, beautiful, and ultimately reassuring.

The Ordinary Terrible Things Series shows children who navigate trouble with their senses on alert and their souls intact. In these stories of common childhood crises, help may come from family, counselors, teachers, or dreams--but crucially, it's the children themselves who find their way to cope and grow.

Divorce Is the Worst (Ordinary Terrible Things) Cover Image
ISBN: 9781948340205
Availability: On Our Shelves Now (Subject to Availability)
Published: Dottir Press - September 3rd, 2019

Part of the Ordinary Terrible Things series, Divorce Is the Worst is a funny but frank picture book for kids whose parents are going through a divorce. In her iconic straightforward-but-sensitive way, author Anastasia Higginbotham sheds light on how hard it is for children to stay whole when their whole world, and the people in it, split apart.

As a child of divorce, I can tell you that the worst part is feeling alone, and feeling like no one could ever understand how awful it is. This book counters those terrible feelings in a beautiful, heartfelt, funny, and digestible way. So incredibly important. --PETER PAIGE, executive producer and co-creator of ABC Family's "The Fosters"

Anastasia Higginbotham...doesn't sugarcoat the words or the charmingly rumpled illustrations in her new book about parents spitting up...With real humor and no pretension, Ms. Higginbotham offers kids empathy necessary to gain hope and perspective on any traumatic event. --JULIE BOWEN, actress, "Modern Family"

Tell Me about Sex, Grandma (Ordinary Terrible Things) Cover Image
By Anastasia Higginbotham (Illustrator)
ISBN: 9781558614192
Availability: Special Order
Published: Feminist Press - April 11th, 2017

Patiently forthcoming with lessons your parents redacted, this necessary conversation stresses consent, sex positivity, and the right to be curious about your body. The dialogue focuses on the dynamics of sex, rather than the mechanics, as Grandma reminds readers that sex is not marriage or reproduction, and doesn't look the same for everyone. Instead, each person's sexuality is their very own to discover, explore, and share if they choose.

Anastasia Higginbotham's tell stories of children navigating trouble with their senses on alert and their souls intact. Her previous books include Divorce Is the Worst and Death Is Stupid.

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